Sometimes I just don't get it.

Here's an example. I've been talking about watching the new Jet Li movie Fearless for a while now, but she hasn't been too keen on it. We're supposed to meet for dinner later, and I suggested watching a movie. Right now, she's out with her friend, and they're watching Fearless.

.....

I don't get it.
She refuses to watch the show with me cos she doesn't think it'll be any good, but then watches it with one of her other friends?

Am I being unreasonable when I ask:
Do I count for nothing?